The way we see the world is only our vision, but there are many others.
Your way can not be defined either correct or wrong, but it is one of the many possible ways created from your map of the world and your vision of reality. But you can ask: does my way work? Does it allow me to be happy? Does it make me feel good? Does it allow me to achieve the objectives?
If you want to get rid of an unwelcome behaviour or a vice like smoking, nail biting, always touching hair, putting fingers in your nose, eating whatever you can find in the cupboard or if you have trouble speaking in front of an audience, or you have difficulty in sustaining an argument with your boss, or relating with colleagues, you can use the technique of SWISH.
One the tools of NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), it is a technique that just in 7 minutes for 7 days allows you to get rid of your vices and replace a negative behaviour with a positive one.